Among the Seton Hall Class of 2016's 1,375 graduates, Elijah Edmunds was the first member of his group of friends from Newark's Vailsburg neighborhood to graduate college
NEWARK -- Elijah Edmunds of Newark didn't make a speech to inspire fellow members of Seton Hall University's Class of 2016 on Monday. That honor went to Noel Girgenti, the business major and class valedictorian from Brooklyn.
But to Edmunds' friends from the working class Vailsburg neighborhood where he grew up, the 21-year-old film major could hardly be more inspirational.
"It's big. I never seen this. This is my first time attending a college graduation," said Isiah Martin, 23, one of five friends who greeted Edmunds with bear hugs and broad smiles as he walked out of the Prudential Center in Newark, home of the Seton Hall Pirates basketball team and Monday morning's commencement ceremony for the university's 1,375 undergraduates receiving degrees. (Seton Hall, whose campus is in South Orange, will hold separate ceremonies for its 1,152 students receiving graduate degrees.)
"Terrific," Martin, a graduate of Newark's West Side High School who is looking for work, said of the commencement ceremony. "I'm grateful to be a part of it."
Edmunds' bachelor of arts makes him not only the first member of his immediate family to graduate from college, but also the only one of his circle of friends in Vailsburg to earn a four-year degree. So Martin was just one of several peers to greet Edmunds as he stepped out of the arena and into the Monday morning sunshine, his long brown braids cascading down his royal blue cap and gown.
"All my buddies!" said Edmunds, who already works as a still photographer and cameraman for short films, and now hopes to earn a master's at NYU Film School. "Amazing, with all my people here. Most people from my neighborhood don't do this."
The Catholic university's two-hour ceremony included remarks from Archbishop John J. Myers of the Newark Archdiocese, who urged graduates to prepare for a life of civic leadership.
In keeping with Seton Hall tradition, Noel Girgenti's valedictory remarks were the main speech, rather than a commencement address delivered by a celebrity or public figure -- say, for example, the president of the United States -- as was the case Sunday at the Rutgers University commencement ceremony in Piscataway, where Barack Obama spoke.
"I don't know why Seton Hall doesn't have people speaking, famous people," lamented Jomara Pena, 23, of Linden, a nurse and 2015 Seton Hall grad, who was back to watch her cousin, Valerie Rodriguez, graduate.
In Girgenti's speech, he told classmates, "Our education challenged our way of thinking."
"Our social experiences allowed us to show compassion and sacrifice for others who we just met, although, sometimes those relationships were the ones that grew most in our hearts," Girgenti said. "Our community informed us how to remain hopeful and faithful to our aspirations and beliefs, while remaining steadfast in our ethics and morals."
Apart from being a time of reflection, for many, Monday was a relief.
"It's been a tough four years," said Dylan Waligroski of Wanaque, a National Guard reservist who earned a nursing degree and will be workign as a case manager for the Guard. "It feels great to be graduating."
There was also relief among some parents, unburdened of tuition bills and confident in the knowledge that a degree will enhance their child's future.
"I feel very happy that she graduated," said Dr. J. Otis Williams, a chiropractor who was up from Beaufort, S.C., to see his 31-year-old daughter, LaToya Williams, receive her nursing degree after starting college later than usual.
The day was also touched with sadness, as groups of friends said goodbye for who knows how long.
Jordan Scrape, 22, of Bridgewater, posed for a picture with three friends and fellow grads.
"We're all going to different places, so we're not going to see each other as much as we used to, so it's sad," said Scrape, an elementary special education major who landed a job in her field with Denville Public Schools this fall. "But we're all doing great things, so it's good in that way."
Among Elijah Edmunds' Newark friends was Seton Hall junior Larry Elijah, who nodded at the recognition that his first name was the same as his friend's last. Larry, a 21-year-old communications major who is from the West Ward, works at the Seton Hall radio station, WSOU, and hopes for a job in media.
"I'm up next," Elijah said, meaning he'll be following in Edmunds footsteps in 2018, while trying to inspire their friends in the meantime. "I'm going to be him the next two years."
NJ Advance Media photographer Robert Sciarrino contributed to this article.
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